I’ve been on a journey of self-discovery since practically forever. I don’t know if this is normal for everyone, but I’ve learned it’s normal for me. I’m constantly trying to learn more about myself, and improve on myself. Over the years, I’ve tried lots of different things. Most have only fleeting success if any. However, there’s been one thing that has had strong success with me and stuck around to become a part of who I am.
A year ago, I started writing again. However, this time I did something different. Somewhat by accident, I discovered the idea of “morning pages,” which was originally coined by Julia Cameron in The Artist’s Way. As a full disclaimer, I’ve yet to actually read the book… but I’ve since seen the idea of morning pages talked about and summarised in any number of places.
In my case, I came across the idea of morning pages on a website called 750words.com and it has been this that has changed my life. I’ve written about this before, so I’m going to try to outline here what has been most helpful for me, that is different from what I’ve done before, and also different (for me) from previous attempts at journaling, which have never taken.
It’s Private
This was a hard one for me to get my head around. The website 750words is designed so that there is no way to share your writing. It’s the only website I’ve found like that. There are blog sites that let you make your blog private, but that’s not the default, and often it’s assumed that even a private blog will have a password so you can share with others. Similarly, when I journalled in the past, I always had this vague notion of someone someday finding my journals and reading them… be that my children, or some stranger in some other time. Anne Frank has a lot to answer for in this regard… I am strangely fascinated by journals from the past, and every time I’ve journalled in the past, even about completely mundane aspects of life, I’ve had deep down thoughts of “when this is found some day in the future…”
Writing for yourself, in a medium that is by it’s very nature private and never intended to be read by anyone else, is a different beast entirely. It took me some time to get my head around. There’s a freedom with this, once you get used to it. You can write about terrifying thoughts and work them out. You can write things that may be offensive to someone if they were going to read them… because they’re not. You can write about your deep dark secrets without worry of someone finding out about them.
I grew up as a reader, and as such, I’ve always had some reader in mind when writing. Writing on 750words is the first time I’ve written for no audience. It’s incredibly freeing once you shake off the imaginary person over your shoulder.
It’s a Brain-Dump
This is closely linked with the above but deserves to stand on its own as well. Morning pages, and how I use 750words.com is stream-of-consciousness writing. It’s literally everything going through my brain. Sometimes that’s ugly. Sometimes it’s a run-down of things I’ve done that day. Sometimes (like when I write first thing in the morning) it contains a lot of complaining about how tired I am and how I’d rather be sleeping. The point is that it acknowledges each thought that crosses my mind and deals to it by writing it down, without judgement, and sometimes without comment. My mind is an incredibly noisy place nearly all of the time. Writing this way calms the chaos simply by being able to ‘get rid’ of the thoughts as they occur by writing them down.
Despite the name “morning pages”, I haven’t always done my daily writing in the morning. I’ve had solid runs where I did my writing as my first step of my nightly routine. Doing the writing at night is handy because it allows me time to process all the thoughts and events that have happened during the day, and get them out of my head before sleep.
However, I have found over the course of this past year that I do best when I do my writing in the morning. There are several reasons for this. Firstly, I am not at all a morning person… it was challenging for me to add this to my morning routine, not the least of which is because it made me have to get up earlier. Previously, I’ve avoided anything that requires getting up earlier. Counterintuitively, though, the process of writing has also caused me to change this and now I get up over an hour earlier than I used to, despite the fact that the actual writing only takes me roughly 15 minutes. In the work that comes with the writing, I’ve noticed I’m at my best when I have a slow and gradual morning routine that allows me plenty of time to change states from sleep to wakefulness to ready to face the world. I only came to that conclusion when contemplating my weekend routines and how different they were to my roll-out-bed and out the door routine of the workdays, where I allowed myself to sleep as long as physically possible whilst still being at work on time. Now I recognise the importance of getting up earlier and honouring the whole process with the time it deserves. Lastly, I prefer writing in the morning because I aim to do it daily, and the anxiety I carry with me through the day of needing to remember to do the writing before bed builds up. If I write first thing in the morning, it’s an immediate thing I can mark off my to-do list, and starts the day with me feeling accomplished, as well as having done some mental processing of everything on my mind.
It’s Unedited
Self-editing is a huge hamper to writing. This is true for all kinds of writing, I believe, but particularly true of stream-of-consciousness writing. Being able to write without worrying about the best wording, or the correct grammar or spelling, but just getting the ideas out, is hugely freeing. I’ve taken this largely into my other writing (fiction, blogs, whatever) as well. A rough draft is not the time for editing – that’s literally why editing comes later in the process. When we try to edit as we write, we kill the flow, but we also become hyper-self-critical and that impedes the whole process. Don’t kill the flow, and don’t edit as you write, particularly daily brain dump writing.
It’s Healing
Today I learned of the studies done by James Pennebaker, which has shown that writing about traumatic or emotional experiences increases wellbeing and physical health. This aspect is the added bonus for me, but also the reason I now make my “morning pages” a priority. When I’ve written about an experience, not only do I get those thoughts out of my mind and deal with them, but also I am able to re-examine them when I need to, and look at things more objectively. I find for the really hard aspects that I’m dealing with, I often end up focussing on them for three to four, sometimes more, days of writing. If this were a blog or even a journal I’d probably prevent myself from doing that, for fear of repeating myself or “boring the reader”. When the only objective is to write to get things out of my head, however, it doesn’t matter if I’m on the same rant I’ve ranted about many times before. It doesn’t matter if I end up crying over the same material I’ve shed tears over before. The act of writing allows me to process, and it allows me to examine things that I do in my life that are helping and things that aren’t helping. To be honest, lots of times the repetition is necessary. It’s the times when I’ve found myself on the same sticking point, again, that I’m prompted to consider whether things have to be the way they are. Is there something I can change to stop myself from ending up in the same place? Do I have agency in the situation, or am I best to simply work on getting it all out until there is no more left to come?
Until today, I was unaware that there have been studies done on the effectiveness of writing this way. Yet in my own life, I’d already found it hugely effective.
In conclusion, I firmly believe that some form of daily writing exercise is useful for anyone and everyone. Using 750words.com works for me, largely because I now am a faster typer than I am writing by hand, and I worry about journals I write being found by someone, intentionally or otherwise. That said, there’s nothing against working on paper, and I know that Julia Cameron in The Artist’s Way specifically advocates for writing longhand on paper. Each to their own. Regardless, if you’ve made it this far in reading about the process, you owe it to yourself to also give it a try. Aim to make judgement-free writing a daily practise – but don’t get so hung up on the ‘daily’ part that you chuck it all in if you miss a day. You never know… it may end up changing your life.